Bismillahirrahmanirrahim.
Bila bosan, mula la mencari cerita-cerita yang boleh mengetuk diri sendiri. haha
Luckily, terbaca satu cerita yg seorang hamba Allah ni komen kat FB Yasmin Mogahed (selalu buka FB page dia, cari kata-kata semangat untuk diri) ngee.
Jom baca.
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There was a man who had four sons. He wanted his sons to learn not to judge things too quickly. So he sent them each on a quest, in turn, to go and look at a pear tree that was a great distance away. The first son went in the winter, the second in the spring, the third in summer, and the youngest son in the fall.
When they had all gone and come back, he called them together to describe what they had seen. The first son said that the tree was ugly, bent, and twisted. The second son said no it was covered with green buds and full of promise. The third son disagreed; he said it was laden with blossoms that smelled so sweet and looked so beautiful, it was the most graceful thing he had ever seen. The last son disagreed with all of them; he said it was ripe and drooping with fruit, full of life and fulfillment.
The man then explained to his sons that they were all right, because they had each seen but only one season in the tree’s life. He told them that you cannot judge a tree, or a person, by only one season, and that the essence of who they are and the pleasure, joy, and love that come from that life can only be measured at the end, when all the seasons are up.
If you give up when it’s winter, you will miss the promise of your spring, the beauty of your summer, fulfillment of your fall. Don’t let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don’t judge life by one difficult season. Persevere through the difficult patches and better times are sure to come some time or later.
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Judgement. First impression.
Orang selalu buat – including me. my bad!
Sebab tu la kan Islam sangat menekankan TAARUF (berkenal-kenalan)
menjauhi suuzon (bersangka buruk), merapatkan ukhwah, dll.
“O mankind! We created you from a single (pair) of a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that ye may know each other (not that ye may despise each other). Verily the most honoured of you in the sight of Allah is (he who is) the most righteous of you. And Allah has full Knowledge and is well-acquainted (with all things).”
(Al-Hujurat:13)
Kita tak boleh nak kenal pokok dalam hanya satu musim, maka manusia pun tak dapat dikenali sepenuhnya pada hanya satu masa. Masa. Ya, perlukan masa. Sebab tu, orang cakap suami isteri yang dah kahwin 10 tahun pun tak kenal habis lagi. haha. Itu yang boleh ada perang-perang, cerai-berai apa bagai (mintak simpang empat puluh empat la) hoho.
Maka, Aina, hang kena:
-husnuzon dengan orang
-nak kenai orang, kena lalu susah senang sama-sama (perlu masa, perlu sabaq)
-sila pandang kebaikan daripada pandang keburukan naa
“It takes a moment to judge someone, But a lifetime to understand them”
HAYAT wa MAMAT 